{"product_id":"lies-our-mothers-told-us-by-nilanjana-bhowmick","title":"Lies Our Mothers Told Us By Nilanjana Bhowmick","description":"\u003cp\u003eLies Our Mothers Told Us: The Indian Woman’s Burden (Aleph Book Company, 2022)\u003cbr\u003eIn this book, Nilanjana Bhowmick explores the structural constraints that impede empowerment and gender equality for middle-class women in India, weaving together personal stories and journalistic investigation. \u003cbr\u003eCore Argument\u003cbr\u003eThe book examines how middle-class families have mastered the art of simulating an environment of empowerment in their homes, even as women continue to face subjugation and are pressured into conforming to outdated norms. Bhowmick asks whether, in a patriarchal society, the assertion that “women can have it all” comes at too high a price. \u003cbr\u003eKey Themes\u003cbr\u003e ∙ The Double Shift: The “double shift” refers to how women fulfill traditional housework and caregiving responsibilities alongside their professional commitments — and coupled with the “superwoman syndrome,” the modern Indian woman’s struggle remains largely invisible. \u003cbr\u003e ∙ Mental Health: The book explores generational struggles with mental health, societal expectations, and domestic abuse, highlighting alarming rates of suicide among housewives and the lack of support for women facing domestic violence. \u003cbr\u003e ∙ Caste and Class: Bhowmick also highlights how the caste factor further deepens the gender gap in India. \u003cbr\u003e ∙ Generational Transmission: Women are caught in a toxic cycle, expected to outperform themselves on every front while paying little attention to their own mental, emotional, and professional development — and unpaid domestic work is shown to be a generational, not merely individual, phenomenon. \u003cbr\u003eAbout the Author\u003cbr\u003eNilanjana Bhowmick has been a journalist for more than twenty-one years and has won three international awards for her reports on gender and development. \u003cbr\u003eCritical Reception\u003cbr\u003eThe book provides several “a-ha” moments through the striking similarity of patterns across space and time, and effectively connects readers with the women whose experiences Bhowmick documents — functioning as a space where women feel heard. A noted criticism is that while it diagnoses the problem compellingly, it offers relatively few pathways forward or solutions.\u003cbr\u003eIt’s a work of narrative journalism and social analysis, comparable in spirit to books like Men Don’t Try or The Second Sex — but grounded specifically in the Indian middle-class experience.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Author’s book \u0026 bookmarks","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":53659503460657,"sku":null,"price":799.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0967\/8818\/5393\/files\/IMG-3317.jpg?v=1775548053","url":"https:\/\/authorsbook.store\/products\/lies-our-mothers-told-us-by-nilanjana-bhowmick","provider":"Author’s book \u0026 bookmarks","version":"1.0","type":"link"}